It won’t be long before school is back in session. For those on a year-round calendar, the new year has already begun. How do we help our special needs kids flourish this year? I’ve been inspired to write this by Cee’s photography, of all things. Here are two images to consider. (The crepe myrtle on the left belongs to a neighbor; the one on the right is ours. Bummer.) Which image best represents our hopes and dreams for kids this school year?
Since I am far more adept at teaching than growing plants, here are some tips as you prepare for the new year:
- Make sure you start adjusting bedtime schedules.
- Start building stamina for longer periods of sitting and listening. The local library is a good option for this.
- Let your child help select lunchboxes and backpacks, where possible.
- Get your child the school’s tee shirt (often available from thrift shops). I have seen these add social credit by creating a sense of belonging.
- Start preparing a daily/weekly routine for school days, most likely with some kind of break when kids get home. The light at the end of the tunnel is important.
- Assuming your child has issues with behavior and/or attention, plan or resurrect a reward system for extra motivation.
- If your child’s IEP does not already include an individual orientation with the classroom teacher, ask for one.
- Start spending time around the school with your kids. You could probably find a garden bed to weed and trash to collect. You might ask the secretary for some other ways to help. Perhaps there are boxes to recycle or catalogs to file in teacher mailboxes. I’ll bet the office staff would enjoy a homemade treat. Bribery works.
- If homework was an unresolved
nightmareissue last year, face it head on. If your child is too worn out after school to effectively complete homework, strategize how you might approach this problem more successfully. Talk to other parents and/or sympathetic teachers for advice.
- Watch some “back to school” movies as a family. Care has a list of 10 good ones, including a favorite of mine, “Akeelah and the Bee.”
- Parent’s Choice also has a great list of back to school books. “Thank you, Mr. Falker” by Patricia Polacco is terrific.
Do you have any other tips to share?