* Social narratives

I’ve posted previously on this topic but want to add a few more tips.

Where do you begin when writing a social narrative?  First you need to identify the specific behavior which needs to be addressed.  Saying that a child has “weak social skills” is much too vague.  You might want to write about “interactions with peers at recess.”  That puts you in the ballpark; you’ve identified where the problems are occurring and with whom.  But again, that does not specifically define the problem.  What kinds of interactions are you describing?  Verbal?  Physical?  And in what context?  Games?  On climbing equipment?  Lining up?  Identify the specifics so that your narrative is useful.

Gather reliable information on the problem before writing.  Ask your student to describe what happened.  I typically complete a drawing as we go through the process.  The following was a common problem for many kids at recess during the era of “football frenzy.”

drawing of events

I drew the schematic as my student, Trevor, described the problem.  He had gone out to recess and started playing football.  Everything was OK until another kid deliberately tripped him (note the first angry face).  Trevor complained vigorously to the offender and then resumed play.  When the other kid tripped him once again, Trevor was really angry.  The teacher assistant saw Trevor arguing and told both kids to follow the rules or they wouldn’t be allowed to play.  The situation went downhill as Trevor screamed when the other kid got close to him.  Trevor was “benched” by the teacher assistant, who told him he needed to cool off.  Trevor saw the other kid laughing at him and jumped off the chair, threatening to smack the other kid.  Trevor was sent to the office.

I also talked to the teacher assistant, who felt that Trevor was totally at fault.  Serendipitously, I had a lunch bunch with a different group of kids who told me that the “other kid” was always pushing and tripping others when they played football.  I had already seen a number of skirmishes as kids played football.  It seemed to me that the problem was global (lots of kids were getting upset) and represented a difficult choice for Trevor: to play or not to play?

Discuss alternatives through a social narrative.  I created a social story which described the situation in “steps,” so that Trevor was required to agree or disagree with the narrative:  “I want to play football, even though some kids cheat.”  We ended up with a kind of decision tree, where Trevor needed to decide if it was worth playing football (yes) even though he got upset every time (yes) and even though that other kid seemed to enjoy tripping him (yes).

Tackle obvious solutions (pun intended).  I took the liberty of alerting the other kid’s teacher and assistant teacher about the deliberate tripping.  That led to a slight decline in his rate of tripping others.  I also tried to help the assistant empathize with my student’s dilemma.  He really, really wanted to play football.  He was not the initiator of this problem, although other kids were better able to take the tripping in stride (unintentional pun).  It was difficult to get that empathy because Trevor had a “history” of threatening others.  (I’ll have to post later on that whole issue.)

Write a narrative that supports positive outcomes.  Begin with the obvious: You are going to play football.  The other kid may try to trip you.  From there, I included possible options.  I ruled out “seeking adult help” because Trevor didn’t want to leave the game and he doubted she would believe him, anyway.  I already had a number of options in mind and we agreed on these:

  1. Tell the other kid he was going to get in trouble if he kept tripping others.
  2. Ignore the other kid, remembering that professional players also trip one another.
  3. Calm down by remembering what happens if you threaten others.
  4. Calm down by taking a sideline break.
  5. Calm down by remembering that this kid is tripping others, too.

Have your student read the narrative before the problematic events typically occur.  In this case, Trevor would read his plan just before lining up for recess and then tuck it in his pants pocket.  He said it would remind him while he played.

Trevor did show improved self-control but recess was still a frustrating experience.  No one was happier than I when teachers decided that football season was over.

4 thoughts on “* Social narratives

  1. This Is not an easy topic – I give you my compliments – Social narratives are interventions that describe social situations in some detail by highlighting relevant cues and offering examples of appropriate responding. They are aimed at helping learners adjust to changes in routine and adapt their behaviors based on the social and physical cues of a situation, or to teach specific social skills or behaviors. Social narratives are individualized according to learner needs and typically are quite short, perhaps including pictures or other visual aides.

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